And the rant continues...

Ok, so maybe I wasn't done ranting on FaceBook...

I'm kinda tired of feeling like I'm the girl guys settle for because the chicks they're, apparently pining after, aren't interested... I am who I am, and for the most part, very happy with who I am. 

I'm NOT all that skinny.

I do NOT have big boobs, hell I barely have them at all...

I DO have hips and thighs, but I can't stand them...

I'm NOT a girly girl.

I AM naturally blonde, but it doesn't suit me.

I can't be that perfect Porn Star status chick all the guys drool over. I'm more like the picture I have posted. A Rocker Chick or something along those lines. I'm not afraid to fight or cuss someone out. Not saying that other women are. But, I'm more than just a body. As perfect or imperfect as it may be. 

And I'm tired of being held to the standards of women who are deemed fucking "Perfect." Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not innocent in checking women out like that. Hell one of my ex co-workers fits the Porn Star Status description, and she's a bad ass chick. BUT I'm a chick, so I'm not holding her to a standard she couldn't possibly rise to. She's not my partner.

Now, women aren't innocent in this whole thing either. We can do it too. Just from my personal experience and that of other women around me, most of the women I know don't do that. They are very happy with who they are with and don't "compare" them to other guys, or girls. ^_^. 

It's like my whole outlook on watching porn... If you're single, then go for it. But if you're with someone, then you shouldn't have a need to look at porn. Specially because in most cases it's being hidden from your partner. NOW, before ya'all get all crazy, if you want to watch it together? More power to you. I used to watch it with one of my exs. We got ideas from them lol. 

Respect is something that seems to be lost in a lot of relationships. If not from one end, from the other... Sometimes even both. It's just something you CANNOT NOT have in a relationship. Along with Trust, Honesty, Communication... Most people will say you can't have a relationship without Love, well without those other 4 aspects, how can you have Love?

And on that note, seeing as I've completely derailed off the original subject, I think I'll end this post lol.

Peace the fuck out!

 ~K.F.

Rant.

Ok. So if you're on my FB, and following what I've been ranting about, then you know what's in store for this post. Ok, onto the post.

Ok, I'm not sure who would read this, other than people I know... But, for anyone who doesn't know me. I am not Religious in any way. I don't believe "God" created the everything. I believe in Evolution. I TOLERATED my son going to Church w/my friend because he was in a class and not listening to the Sermon. It got him out of the house and interacting with other kids. {The ONLY reason I let him go.} What pisses me off is when someone tries to force their beliefs on MY child! We do not practice any religion in my Home. I refuse to sway my child into believing what I believe in and I absolutely REFUSE to let someone else try to force him to believe their beliefs. It's fucked up....

So when the boy came home from School today and started talking about how God created everything, I got angry. HOWEVER, I calmly asked him where he heard that from/who said that to him. And he said that his Teachers Assistant did. That REALLY pissed Mommy off. There's a REASON Religion isn't taught in school. How does the T.A. know if we're religious or not, you might wonder? Because, I've told them. It's not something that's news to them. I'm trying to remain calm and rational, but what the fuck was she thinking?! I don't tell my son we Evolved from Apes, or Sea creatures. Whatever. So, I'm a bit livid about that being said to my son. I don't do well when people say things to my children, like that, without speaking to me first....

My best friend is the one who used to take Zav to Church. But, she knew how I felt and she was never Preachy about anything. So, we're cool. She respects my beliefs and I respect hers. We're discussed our specific beliefs. And while our opinions differ, we can still talk about it calmly and like adults. Which is something a lot of people that have their heads up their asses about Religion CAN'T do. Ugh....

Ok, well I think that's it for now. I seem to have ran out of steam to continue my tirade about Religion and how it doesn't apply to my life lol

Until next time.

 ~K.F.

1st post.

Welp, it's 6:14am and I'm writing this... What does that tell you? Lol. I never sleep... So I'll probably babble on, a lot, at the weeeeee hours of the morning lol. Buuuuuuut, now, it's time to get my kid up. So latas.


 ~K.F.